Monday, September 24, 2007

Ghosts of Blogging Past


I am linking up with Mommy 2 Cents and Chosen Chaos for a Ghosts of Blogging Past party. All the cool kids will be attending, and they’ll be linking up one of their earliest posts.

 http://www.mommytwocents.com/

Here's mine:



NO MORE SEX
Before anyone reads the title of this article and thinks that I’m refusing sex, let me explain. 

I love sex. I mean I really love sex, and as much as I’d like to write about the sex that I love, I’m actually talking about Sex and the City, the movie, that’s currently filming on the streets of Danitown. Someone apparently asked for this movie because Sex is back.

Sweet baby Jesus people, I do not need nor want to see Carrie, Miranda, Charlotte and Samantha, now in their 40’s, and do I dare say it out loud, 50’s, still kvetching about their high class problems, and glorifying women as materialistic, Martini chugging, bed-hopping sex addicts, in Manolo Blahniks. And my feelings have nothing to do with the fact that I don’t know a Blahnik from a Choo. Unless you’re talking about the Beatles song, I am The Walrus, coo coo ca choo.

We had eight seasons, 94 episodes, a jump in Cosmo sales at bars throughout the world, and Kim Catrall’s books, educating novices about sexual intelligence, and the female orgasm. Isn’t that enough? I’m not sure that I see the point in a SATC movie. Then again, I don’t see the point in showering everyday either. 


The movie was supposed to begin filming right after the series ended in 1998, but since the money wasn’t talking, some of the ladies went walking. And I’m embarrassed that I know that.

According to the website I found chronicling the New York City shoot, fans have been chomping at the bit for a SATC movie. Really, because when I logged on, there were only three different postings expressing dire love and devotion for Carrie and the crew. 


There are some set photos of the ladies on the website as well, and from what I can see, the Annie Hall look just might be coming back to haunt us, complete with vest, loose tie and button down shirts.

And the shoe on those bitches? Let me tell you something, I can’t walk outside my building and to the bus stop, a hundred feet away, in anything higher than sneakers, let alone traipsing along Fifth avenue in stilettos. Who does that? It’s not like I wouldn’t want the sexy high end fuck me pumps, but with my bunions, it’s a nice Merrell walking sandal for me. I marvel at the SATC gals and those like them, who are able to clickity clack around New York City without falling and breaking something.

It’s been three years since last we saw our ladies and according to reports, the movie will not be picking up where the series left off in 2004 because of the slight aging of the actresses. Slight aging? I’ll tell you what slight aging has meant to me in the last three years. 


That pesky little thing called gravity is a f’in she-bitch. It attacked me from above and from behind. And just when I thought I’d be able to get away with five simple Botox injections twice a year, my nasolabial fold now needs filling. Note to self: make an appointment with Dr. Gottlieb. But that’s just me. I’m curious to see what slight aging has meant to the gals.

So, do these characters now or have they ever represented a cross section of contemporary women? No. Although in the movie version Jennifer Hudson, a woman of color, will be playing Carrie’s assistant. I hope that she’ll be a singing assistant, because that sista’s got pipes.

The SATC way of life was never my way of life- mainly because the last time I lived in NYC I was in my 20’s. But now that I’ve moved back and I’m in my early 40’s, which is the new 30’s, and in a relationship, maybe, just maybe, I’ll finally be able to relate to the SATC ladies. 


And maybe, just maybe, I will get myself a pair of wood Flaminia brown strap pumps, a black Filth Mart floral print dress, a black Club Monaco saddle bag, and sashay my ass over to the bus stop. A girl can dream.



7 comments:

Jamie said...

This is great... when did you originally post it? I am not a lover of SATC but some people are psycho about it. I often wonder if it's just a way of avoiding the real world??

Anywho... I have a feeling you could sashay your ass just about anywhere! Thanks for linking up with us!!

thegirlfriendmom said...

Hey, thanks Jamie. I actually wrote this for an online comedy zine, which went belly up before it could be published. I didn't actually start blogging until February of this year.
Of course SATC is escapism and fantasy.
I'm looking forward to meeting new blogs through this link. Thanks again for reading.

Michael Ann said...

I never watched the original series when it was on, but I have caught reruns and have frankly been shocked by some of what I have seen, and I'm not easily shock-able. It really pushed the boundaries of what was ok to talk about on t.v. and not in a good way. I did end up seeing the movie only because I had to at some woman party. It was practically porn. One sex seen between the chick with the short hair and her husband was totally raw. Ok anyway, yea, never was into this. Good post and glad you joined the hop!

thegirlfriendmom said...

Hey Michael Ann,

Thanks for stopping by.
I concur with your comments and let me just add that one the girlfriend mom's kids is obsessed with SATC. She lives in the city wants that life. Oy. Glad that I joined the hop.

A Morning Grouch said...

I watched sex and the city on dvd, just watched a whole bunch of those suckers one weekend, and thought they were cute, sort of funny, whatever. The movie was one of the worst movies I have ever seen. there was a FASHION show in the movie. WHAT?? But, this is coming from someone obsessed with tennis shoes. So.

Mommy2¢ said...

Hahaha! I love it! You, girlfriend, crack me up! I am with you... I could never prance around in stiletto heals all day, every day! No thank you! I never really got into the series. I'm more of a Dexter type girl. But I did go watch the second movie with some friends who were spastic over it and it wan't bad.

Thanks so much for linking up with us for Ghosts of Blogging Past!

thegirlfriendmom said...

Hey Grouch,
Don't you dare belittle your tennis shoe collection. You rock.

Mommy 2- (shit I can't find the cents sign) ... I love that you used the word spastic. Really brings back- Thanks for reading.